A South Africa-based Zimbabwean, Cossam Munemo, has revealed that his 20-year marriage has ended in divorce after his wife, Virginia Ruzariro, cheated on him for six years.

The Story:

Cossam and Virginia got married in 2004 and moved to South Africa together in 2016. Initially, everything seemed fine, but in 2018, Cossam noticed Virginia acting strangely, spending more time in their children’s rooms, and being secretive about her WhatsApp conversations. Despite his suspicions, Virginia refused to give him her phone password.

The Discovery:

One day, Cossam managed to access Virginia’s phone and discovered her affair with a man named Cosmas. The messages revealed a deep emotional connection, with the two discussing their love and even mocking Cossam. The discovery devastated him, and he considered ending his life, but the thought of his children stopped him.

The Aftermath:

Cossam sought help from a church elder and eventually returned home, but Virginia’s behavior didn’t change. Last weekend, she gave him a divorce token, ending their 20-year marriage.

The Pain:

Cossam expressed his heartache, saying, “Ndakafunga zvekubva pamba ndikanogara musango kwemasvondo maviri” (I thought of leaving and going to the bush for two weeks). He added, “Ndakambofunga kuzviuraya asi ndakazofunga kuti vana vangu vanosara vakatambudzika” (I thought of killing myself, but I thought of my children and how they would suffer).

This is a tragic story of betrayal and heartbreak.